So got home from work after a late shift last night, partner literally blew up on me, stating how could I have done what I did and hide it from him and him not find out. I asked him what(as i genuinely have no idea what the hell hes on about), at which point he told me he “doesn’t want to speak to me, f*ck off, get out of here”

So I retreated to the bedroom, out of his way and went to sleep.

Woke up this morning, got ready to go to my mums, went to the living room to get my handbag and he was asleep on the sofa.

Since I’ve been home, I’ve just been staying out of his way. He’s walking around like he owns the place(we are joint tenants in a rented place) and giving me the silent treatment. First time I saw him after I got home I asked if he was gonna talk to me yet and tell me what I’d supposedly done but was met with a brick wall so now I’m playing the same game and ignoring him every time he comes past me to the kitchen for anything(even tho hes not saying anything anyway). He’s been in the computer room all day.

Thing is, he sometimes has these episodes where he just gets the hump for no reason and takes it out on those around him. In the past I’d have fought tooth and nail to get it out of him and talk it out etc. Etc. But not this time. In the last nearly 24 hrs I’ve asked him twice. I think I’ve finally reached that point. Not quite I give up and I’m done, but the point where I’m not doing the same old crap anymore, and I need to do something to show him that this behaviour is unacceptable.

Problem is, in the last hour, he’s come to me to ask me a question or 2 about the PC. Now in my head when I first thought about approaching this differently, I told myself I was just gonna completely blank him, like he’d done to me so far, but I only went and replied didn’t I… slightly differently tho, I played dumb. Did this > 🤷‍♀️ and said “no idea what you’re on about”.

So how can I stop being a little bitch and take him down a peg or two?

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