My gf is pregnant with our third and it wasn’t planned. Our finances are out of control, we are more than £10k in credit debt and we already have two to get through nursery.
Our pay isn’t that great nor is it low enough to get help from benefits.
What on earth do I do? I feel like I am failing at life. Any advise or anything would be appreciated?
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